For several years Susan has been praying for
a missionary lady who struggled with cancer. She and her husband
worked in Quito Ecuador for HCJB. From time to time she would
be back in Toronto for treatment and we would have the opportunity
to meet with her.
In June she came home for the last time and
entered Princess Margaret Hospital for experimental treatment.
Because her husband is from Winnipeg the four boys and the husband
did not have a place to stay in the Toronto area. We volunteered
our home as our girls were away in Cape Cod for the summer and
it meant we had spare bedrooms. They moved in and stayed with
us for almost a month. Because the husband was so far from home
he did not have a spiritual mentor to assist him. That is where
I came in.
During this time we were able to minister
in temporal and spiritual ways to the family including the patient
in hospital. It meant our home was a busy place as we housed,
fed and in other ways looked after five extra people. The four
boys ranged in age from 9-17 and were typical delightful young
men. Because we had planned to be on holiday during this time
our schedule was open and we were free to devote ourselves to
the care of our guests.
After several weeks of unsuccessful treatment
the lady slipped into a coma and finally went to be with the
Lord. It was a sad business as the husband never gave up hope
for an arrest of the cancer and an extension of his wife's life.
It is such a difficult matter to know when
to shift one's thinking from hope for a cure to the realization
that death is inevitable and may as well be faced. To take away
hope for a reprieve seems cruel, and there never seems to be
an appropriate time to face the fact that death is coming soon.
All one who helps can do is to be there and quietly keep vigil
with the family. That is what we did.
We are grateful that the Lord has given us
a home that can be used to shelter people in need and where
they can retreat from the cold realities that face them to be
refreshed and comforted. Also we are thankful that the Lord's
people minister to our material needs in such a way that we
are in a position to help the hurting in this manner.
Perhaps the Lord will encourage some of our
readers to offer their homes for hospitality to the needy. Some
have grown children who have moved out leaving room for someone
to come for a few days respite from the wearying battle with
adversity. It does not take a lot of skill to extend hospitality
to an individual or family on the short term. A little love
goes a long way to easing the suffering of others and it is
good stewardship of our temporal resources.