A frequently heard comment in ordinary
conversation, is the expression, "I have the right
to be wrong." This statement is said with an air of
finality that defies contradiction. The person uttering
this, apparently true word, challenges all comers to call
into question his position. That is exactly what I propose
to do.
If, when someone makes this statement
they are indicating they have the ability to do things that
are wrong, then everyone must agree. We are all capable,
and in fact, are involved every day in doing things that
are wrong by various standards. But this is not likely what
the person means.
What is more to the point is that the
person almost certainly means that they do not wish anyone
judging their actions and condemning them for them. This
is a luxury that most people wish to afford, especially
when they know they have done something particularly wrong.
No one in his or her right mind enjoys being proven wrong.
But, do we really have the right to be
wrong? The answer is an emphatic "No!" No one
has the right to be wrong. While we all have the capacity
to be wrong and indulge that ability frequently, we have
no right whatsoever to be wrong.
Imagine someone who is of the opinion
they have the right to be wrong being pulled over on the
highway for speeding. The officer comes up to their car
and asks them if they are aware how fast they were travelling.
The person says they do and indicates a speed well above
the legal limit. As the officer writes out a speeding ticket,
the person then says to the officer that they have the right
to be wrong. Can you imagine what the officer would think,
or say to the person? Somehow the person's right to be wrong,
would not extend to the place where they would not get a
speeding ticket.
Think of the teller in the bank who makes
an error on your deposit and short changes you $500.00.
You bring the mistake to their attention and they say that
they have the right to be wrong. Somehow, when it comes
to money, no one has the right to be wrong.
Well, if we don't have the right to be
wrong on the side of the highway, or in the bank, where
do we have the right to be wrong? It seems that many people
who try to insist on the right to be wrong are thinking
especially of moral issues and especially in the area of
our relationship to God. But this is exactly the area where
we desperately need to be right, not wrong!
We all can afford a speeding ticket now
and then, or we can sort out a wrong at the bank easily
enough, but if we are mistaken in our relationship to God,
what recourse do we have? Is not our relationship to the
Almighty the most significant, the most profound issue of
life? Why is it that in this area of all areas, we wish
to fudge the matter? Why is it we desire a lack of clarity
here when we want accuracy in other areas of life?
Is it possible that we have a sneaking
suspicion that our life style may not be pleasing to our
Creator and for that reason we wish the right to be wrong?
We hope that God will indulge us in our sins? We pray that
He will turn a blind eye to our misdeeds? Is this not the
real issue here as we consider our "right to be wrong"?
How foolish we are to have such a mindset.
We are most anxious that the surgeon scrub very carefully
before operating on us, we want him or her to be the best,
most experienced doctor with the least mistakes in surgery.
But when it comes to our never dying souls, when we are
considering our eternal destiny, when we are addressing
the most powerful Being in all creation, the One to whom
we must give an account, we prefer to be sloppy in our relationship.
Another possibility in this matter is
that we know deep down that we are very wrong, we are very
guilty and for that reason, we hope to be excused for our
misdeeds. We do not know how to sort out our difficulties
and we therefor are anxious to sweep them under the rug.
We pray that we will be allowed to get away with our sins.
But, going back to the police officer
on the side of the highway, if we cannot argue our right
to be wrong with him, how much less can we argue with the
Almighty. If we cannot manipulate a fellow creature, can
we out maneuver the God of all creation? The question carries
its own answer. We cannot.
There is only one way to deal with
the issue of being wrong before God. The solution to guilt
with God is found in Jesus Christ. He has the authority
to absolve us of our sins and to give us peace with God.
If we will confess our sins to Him, recognizing we have
no right to be wrong, He will forgive us our sin and cleanse
us from all unrighteousness. This is the right way, all
other ways are wrong.