The phone call came from a member of the
family. Jean was ill again in the Hospital. In about 30
minutes I was on my way to the hospital.
When I arrived I found two daughters and
Jean's husband waiting for me. The girls indicated that
their mom was a quiet lady who did not speak about her Christian
faith as they were growing up. They both were concerned
about whether or not their mom was ready to die. Jean was
a quiet and gentle lady, obviously in pain, yet very receptive
to my prayer and talk of the Saviour. I assured her that
just as she presented herself to the medical community for
her physical needs, so she could present herself to the
Lord for her spiritual needs. Her husband was exceptionally
grateful for my presence with them, he had been raised in
the Gospel Halls in Ireland and knew the Scriptures very
well.
Over the next seven days I visited regularly
and discovered the family to be open and anxious to hear
the Scriptures and have prayer. Jean slipped into a coma
but I spoke to her each visit and held her hand as I prayed
for her. On Saturday morning the family called to advise
me that Jean was slipping away. I went to the hospital and
en route decided that I would quote the 23rd Psalm. Later,
one of the daughters told me that this was her mother's
favourite Psalm. When I arrived home, the phone was ringing,
it was the family calling say that the Lord had taken Jean
home.
As I reflect on this family I see once
again dear Christians who, for whatever reasons, have fallen
away from regular church attendance, and are silent in their
faith. I know that some offer arguments to suggest that
real Christians cannot be "silent". I, on the
other hand, am one of those who believe that some Christian's
have had exceptionally painful experiences in the church
and find it easier to stay away from the Lord's house.
When judging others we need to remind
ourselves of the insightful words of Oswald Chambers; "There
is always one more thing you don't know about someone."
We haven't walked in their shoes, we don't know their pain.
We need to recognize that some of the Lord's people "fall
between the cracks" and it's our responsibility to
help them back up, with a gentle push not a "great
big shove"! They, as we, need the fellowship and encouragement
of God's people as we work through the more difficult issues
of life.
Do you know of someone who has stopped
attending church? Perhaps you could call to let them know
you miss them. Offer to bring them with you, to sit with
them, to have lunch with them after church, invite them
to your Bible Study or social function. Whatever you do,
make sure they know you care.
Remember, not all the silent Christians
are those who have ceased attending church, some of us are
silent Christians when we don't bother reaching out to those
who have "disappeared from our midst"! Who did
Jesus come to save, which people were of most value to him?
Shouldn't these same people be of greatest value to us?
Luke 15:4-6 "Suppose one of you has
a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Does he not leave
the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost
sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully
puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his
friends and neighbors together and says, 'Rejoice with me;
I have found my lost sheep.'